Reinvent Yourself After Job Loss - Ten Tips So You Don't Skip a Beat

Today's economy is creating uncertainty-andpeople. Look for mentors who can help you make
opportunity-for a record number of Americannew connections or develop new skills. Thank
professionals. As companies downsize, millions ofpeople for their help, and look for ways that you
people are planning Act II of their lives. If you'recan help others by making connections or sharing
one of them, you know what it feels like to beyour expertise. Don't dwell on your fears.
outside of your comfort zone. Resist theReframe negative, fearful thoughts as challenges
temptation to sink into despair. This "slow period"and opportunities. Even better, set goals for
can be an opportunity to rethink your long-termyourself and reward every achievement.
goals, readjust your priorities, reassess what'sContinue to grow. Find a mentor. If your finances
needed to accomplish your vision and reframewon't permit you to hire a mentor, see if you can
your skills to attract a new employer. You canbarter services or take advantage of some of
use this transition to emerge stronger than ever-ifthe free business resources from the Small
you use your energy to create a game plan toBusiness Authority, Chamber of Commerce and
reach your goals.local universities and community colleges. Read
Here's your survival kit to help you make thebooks that help you broaden your business
most of your new possibilities without skipping aperspective. Take courses, sign up for workshops
beat.and attend lectures. Go to trade shows,
Create an "I Believe In Me-and So Do Others"networking opportunities and business receptions
bulletin board. This is a combination of a visionwhere you can meet new people. Use the
board (where you post pictures of your goals andInternet for competitive research. Make the most
dreams) and a collection of the inspirationalof your flexible schedule to stay current and
quotes, congratulatory emails, thank you notesconnected.
and testimonials others send praising your bestTake time for yourself. This transition is a unique
qualities. Make sure you put this bulletin boardopportunity. Take some "mental health breaks"
where you'll see it frequently from yourand schedule in time for workouts, lunches with
workspace to keep your spirits high.encouraging friends or family, even trips to the
Make a "greatest achievements" folder. List yourpark. You'll be back at work soon enough and
awards and promotions and quantify yourback on the career treadmill. Plan a half day every
successes. Don't worry whether they're big orweek to do something relaxing like enjoy a walk,
small, personal or professional. Include things likeread at the library, go to a free afternoon at the
volunteer service and workplace committees,museum or have a picnic. You'll be amazed at
leadership roles, events you've hosted, big saleshow refreshed you'll feel without spending a dime.
and new clients that you've landed. Keep thisCongratulate yourself for the wins, both big and
close at hand so you can refocus on yoursmall. Don't wait until you find a job to celebrate.
successes the next time you're feeling down.Reward yourself when you make ten phone calls
Do a "skills inventory" and ask your friends toor send ten emails. Praise yourself for the effort
help. Make a list of all the skills, traits and talentswhen you schedule appointments or research a
you think are valuable at work and in leadershippotential employer. Make a do-able daily to-do list
roles. Now ask a few close friends, trustedand celebrate reaching the end of every day's list.
colleagues and even supportive family membersCelebrate your win when you create your web
to do the same. This informal "360 review" issite, refresh your resume or polish your cover
likely to turn up strong points from others thatletter. Make sure to share your successes with
you discount in yourself. Keep these skills andsupportive friends.
talents in mind as you prepare to find a new role,Make your success visible-and visual. Professionals
and continue to ask your group of supporters forin the creative industries know how important a
feedback throughout the process, and use themportfolio is to showcase their best work for a
to help you role play for practice beforeprospective client. Why not borrow the idea even
important interviews and presentations.if you're not in a "creative" profession? Create an
Stay in the business habit. Dress the part whenonline multimedia portfolio with photos or graphics
you go out for lunches or coffee with friends andto represent key milestones or accomplishments
colleagues. If funds permit, buy a new suit (or atin your resume.
least a fresh tie or scarf) or invest in a newAsk for audio or emailed endorsements from
briefcase, folio or purse. You'll feel fresh andformer bosses and colleagues, even people who
confident. Make sure your shoes are shined, yourhave seen your volunteer contributions. Upload
clothes are pressed and that you have the bestphotos of your involvement in community
haircut you can afford. Limit the people to whomprojects such as Habitat for Humanity. (Hint: Your
you confide your fears, personal issues andLinkedIn page could be a great place for this!) Or,
uncertainties to a trusted few who can becreate an off-line "portfolio" of your work
counted on to respect your confidences.contrasting "before" and "after" examples of your
Realize that you are your own product. Getwork in text descriptions or photos (if
personal business cards made so you have aappropriate). Use a three-ring binder so you can
professional calling card. Try to avoid self-printedadd or change content to suit the interview. Be
perforated cards and take advantages of thesure to include your resume and reference letters.
many online specials for a quality product at aMany successful people look back on times when
great price. Buy a domain name that's as close tothey were "displaced" and realize in hindsight that
your name as possible and get a professionalthose transitions were amazing growth
email address that isn't AOL, Hotmail, Gmail or oneopportunities. While change is never easy, your
of the other free services. Remember, you'reattitude, persistence and actions can enable you
building a brand-YOU!to realize your dreams. So don't let a career
Surround yourself with positives. Read proactive,change slow you down. It just might be the
affirming business books. Hang out with positiveopportunity you've been searching for!