Business Networking - How Much Do You Hate It?

Networking is an extremelynot related to us but still are treated like family.
beneficial business activity, but most people just- Some of these people may also be in our social
hate to do it. In fact, most people will do almostnetwork as well.
anything to get out of going to a networking- In our health network we would have our
event.doctors, dentists, chiropractors, dietitians and
It often works like this. For one reason oranyone else who may contribute to our overall
another, you find yourself going to a networkingwell being.
event. As you walk in the door, you scan the- In on our business network, which overlaps with
room and realize you don't know a soul in theour financial network we have bankers, insurance
room. You look for the bar, thinking a drink mightagents, and investment counselors.
be the best thing. You find something to drink andFor most of us these networks grow
a place to stand. Eventually someone walks byspontaneously. The point of this article is that
and you strike up a conversation. You tradewhen we consciously design and construct these
business cards and drift apart. This may or maynetworks for a specific purpose, they will perform
not be repeated. At the end of the evening youbetter for us.
may have a small pile of business cards that youBenefits to Networking:
toss on the corner of your desk. You wonder ifHere are some examples of the benefits you can
anything will come of the event, and soon it fadesget out of networking.
from your memory.- Genuine friendship - While friendship often results
You quickly learn that networking is afrom social networking (happy hour could be one
non-productive way to spend time, and fightbig example), the people you meet at business
vigorously to keep from going to another. Andnetworking events can also become close friends
you are correct. Networking in that way isover time.
certainly a waste of time.- Gathering new ideas and fresh perspectives -
I know this is how it works because that isAnytime you are exposed to a lot of people you
exactly the way I started networking.cannot avoid their new ideas and insights on
Why is networking important?business problems. If you keep an open mind and
No one individual can know all the answers, or benot dismiss new thought, it can be a very mind
good at solving every problem, but, a carefullybroadening experience.
constructed network of friends and associates- New job opportunities - Many people only
can. A robust network of friends and businessnetwork to find new job opportunities. After all,
contacts can pull you out of trouble when thethe best way to find new jobs is to know
going gets rough.someone at the company you are interested in.
Your ability to succeed depends to a very largeBut, as the title of Harvey McKay's book states,
degree on the rapport you establish with keyyou should "Dig Your Well Before You Are
individuals in your life. Think about that for a bit.Thirsty." Don't wait until you are out on the street
In business networking we are consciously lookingto begin your networking. Networking is not an
to assemble a network of people that can assistovernight thing.
us in succeeding in business. In real estate for- Business intelligence - One great way to find out
example, an agent may band together with otherwhat is going on in your industry is to network at
agents to help each other with open houses,industry functions.
finding listings, or closing sales. They may also- Sales leads - One of the principle functions of
band together with complimentary businessesnetworking is to generate sales leads. This
such as lending institutions, title companies, homehappens slowly at first, since trust has not been
inspection services, interior decorators, and manyestablished. But, before long, you can see your
others that may be involved in the sale of homes.leads take off.
Together, this group is far stronger then any one- Barter - For savvy networkers, barter (direct
individual agent.exchange of goods or service) is a clever way to
Types of Networks:get rid of unused inventory, or services. You can
Human beings are social by nature and arego through a formal barter service, for third party
surrounded by a network of networks in our life.trades, or just deal directly with a trading partner.
Many of these overlap and some are containedThe benefits to networking far outweigh the
within others. Here are some examples:negatives. It just takes a little practice and
- The family network - Our immediate andunderstanding.
extended family and perhaps individuals who are